The Healing Power of Breathwork

“Inhale into the belly, inhale into the chest, exhale.” A simple breathing pattern, with powerful impact.

In 2018, I experienced a somatic healing modality, breathwork, for the first time. At a weeklong retreat in the mountains of Canada, I was guided through what would be a truly healing experience, just by using my breath. This was the beginning of a long and transformative journey with breathwork. Two years after my introduction to the modality, I became a breathwork facilitator and guide through intensive training. I was deeply moved and inspired by the change that had taken place within myself, from something so simple yet profound, and wanted to provide that opportunity for others. So, what is breathwork?

Breathwork comes in many shapes and forms. There are different breathing patterns, lengths of breathing, and styles. Some are laying down, some are sitting, some involve movement, some don’t. At its foundation, breathwork is an intentional way of using the breath to create new physiological, mental, and/or emotional states. When we look more deeply at what breathwork can involve and beyond its foundation, it becomes more nuanced. However, I can speak to the type of breathwork I was trained in and facilitate, which is a 3-part breathing pattern, laying down, for around 45 minutes. It is used as a somatic practice to access deeper emotions, work through past wounding, and experience new states of consciousness or perspectives. By using the breath, stagnant energy, emotion, and belief systems that we are no longer willing to carry are given the opportunity to move and be released. When this occurs, we are invited to step into new ways of being, thinking, and showing up in the world, that are oftentimes in alignment with our deeper, more authentic selves and soul.
While everyone’s experience of breathwork is different, and one’s individual experience of breathwork can change from one class to the next, there are some general themes I’ve noticed in my time as a practitioner. People report experiencing feelings of intense physical and emotional release. Some experience visions of future, empowered versions of themselves; and sometimes, past or younger selves. Trauma or painful events may be revisited and processed with a sense of healing and closure. Decisions that once felt confusing are seen with newfound clarity or peace. Desires and dreams are taken more seriously, and we can see the ways in which we’ve been holding ourselves back from them.  Sometimes, one might experience all of the above, or something entirely different altogether.

Some look to breathwork for a spiritual experience, others for a purely physical or emotional one. Oftentimes, all three. When done with intention, I believe that breathwork can provide healing for a wide range of needs. 

Sound pretty unbelievable just from breathing? Well, when we give our conscious mind something to focus on (the breath), it allows our subconscious mind, body, and emotions to come to the surface more easily. Our bodies are intelligent vessels that can hold so much more than what is at the forefront of our awareness. 

As a breathwork facilitator and a therapist, I believe that each person is the authority of and has the capacity for their healing and growth. We each hold within us the answers for what we need and are truly capable of. My job is to walk alongside you to uncover these answers.





Bridging the Gap: Bringing Therapy Insights into Everyday Life

Therapy is a journey of self-discovery and growth, but the real power of therapy lies in applying what you learn in your sessions to real-life situations. While it’s easy to feel inspired during a session, many people struggle to make that connection in their daily lives. This post offers practical steps to bridge the gap, empowering you to integrate therapy insights into your everyday experience.

Reflect and Take Notes

Recap Key Points: After each therapy session, take a few minutes to jot down any major insights or "aha" moments that came up. Writing down even a few sentences can help cement new perspectives and provide a point of reference for the future.

Identify Patterns: Recurring themes in therapy often reveal underlying beliefs or behaviors that may influence your daily life. For example, noticing a pattern of avoiding conflict or engaging in self-criticism can help you identify areas to work on outside of therapy.

Set Intentions: Create small, actionable goals based on the insights from your session. If your therapist encourages self-compassion, set an intention to counter negative self-talk or practice self-kindness when you make a mistake. These goals act as practical steps to reinforce the work done in therapy.

Practice Mindfulness to Stay Aware

Mindful Awareness: Mindfulness can help keep therapy insights at the forefront throughout the day. Practicing brief breathing exercises or doing mental check-ins during moments of stress or transition can help you reconnect with what you’ve learned in therapy.

Check for Triggers: Recognizing situations in your daily life that provoke emotions or reactions you’re addressing in therapy allows you to implement the coping strategies discussed in sessions, reinforcing your progress.

Implement New Strategies Gradually

Small Steps Lead to Change: Integrating therapy tools into your life doesn’t have to be overwhelming. Start small. For instance, if you’re working on assertiveness, practice in a low-stakes situation like politely asserting a preference when dining out with friends.

Experiment and Reflect: Each day, select one insight or tool to apply to real-life situations. Afterward, take a moment to reflect on how it felt and what worked well. This trial-and-error approach helps you fine-tune your application of therapy strategies.

Communicate with Your Therapist

Discuss Real-Life Applications: Bring real-life situations into therapy to discuss what went well and what challenges arose. This dialogue personalizes therapy and offers an opportunity to refine strategies for improved outcomes.

Ask for Homework: Some therapists assign "homework," but even if they don’t, you can request exercises or practices to try during the week. Practicing between sessions deepens learning and reinforces the connection between therapy and daily life.

Resources to Support Your Journey

To support your journey further, a variety of books, apps, podcasts, and tools can complement your therapy experience. These resources offer additional guidance, practical exercises, and inspiration to help you seamlessly apply what you’ve learned in therapy to your daily life.

Podcasts

  • The Therapy Chat Podcast: Hosted by Laura Reagan, LCSW-C, this podcast covers many therapy topics and real-life applications of therapeutic concepts.

  • Where Should We Begin? with Esther Perel: While it focuses on relationship therapy, Perel’s podcast highlights common emotional themes and challenges, offering insights that can be applied to personal growth outside of therapy.

  • 10% Happier with Dan Harris: This podcast explores mindfulness and mental health topics, often providing actionable tips that can supplement therapy.

Books

  • The Happiness Trap by Dr. Russ Harris: This book offers practical exercises in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), helping readers learn mindfulness and acceptance strategies to apply in day-to-day life.

  • Atomic Habits by James Clear: While not specifically about therapy, this book delves into habit formation and how small changes lead to significant personal growth, making it relevant for integrating therapy insights gradually.

  • The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown: Brown’s work on vulnerability and self-acceptance is both inspiring and actionable, particularly when working through issues around self-worth or perfectionism.

Apps

  • Woebot: This is a chatbot-style app that uses cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) techniques to help users manage stress, reframe thinking, and reinforce skills learned in therapy.

  • Headspace or Calm: These mindfulness apps offer guided meditations that can help users stay grounded, reflect on therapy insights, and build mindfulness as a regular practice.

  • Moodfit: This app includes tools like mood tracking, gratitude journaling, and breathing exercises. It can serve as a daily reminder to check in on how you're applying therapy skills in real-life situations.

In Conclusion

Change takes time and consistency. Therapy is not just about what happens in the room but how it empowers you to handle life’s challenges with new tools and perspectives. Remember, every small effort counts. Over time, these small steps add up, creating big, lasting changes that bring therapy’s benefits to every corner of your life. Take it one step at a time, and trust the process—you’ve got this!